You are having a wedding that reflects your values.
Whether it's a 200 person wedding or tiny elopement for two; very traditional, totally off-beat, or an awesome mix of both, you're choosing the things that are important and authentic to you and letting the rest go.
You're invested in the wedding day as a couple, and cringe when people say "It's the bride's day."
You know "love is love".
You support marriage equality wholeheartedly, and you know that love and family, in all of the wonderful, varied shapes they take, are the most important things in the world.