John asked me at one point, "Are my family members taking too many photos?" and I smiled, because I often get asked that, and the answer is always no. "Family paparazzi" is just fine with me, although I always encourage everyone put their cameras down and be 100% present during the actual wedding ceremony. But during the portraits before and after? Go for it. And yes, I will totally snap a photo with your iPhone for you to post on Facebook. "Just got married!" is an important status update!